So It’s April 1st and You’re Engaged…

Happy April 1st. Apparently today is not just a day for April Fools pranks, but also for engagements. It’s a dangerous move choosing to announce your engagement on April Fools Day. In fact, I’m still wondering how many of the engagements that appeared on my Facebook newsfeed this morning are actually legit? I’m forced to […]

Engaged and Waiting to have Sex: Is There a Point?

I don’t know where it came from, or how it came into my possession, but I have this candle. It’s not a particularly nice looking candle. And the scent is entitled Mediterranean Breeze as if it were the happy hour special at a bar in Miami. Either way, this candle has been on my bedside table […]

Why Christians Don’t Know How To Talk About Sex (and what we need to do differently)…

So… I like sex. Quite a bit.  Am I allowed to say that? I’m going to jump right into this thing.  I’m assuming that most who read this blog are interested in a Jesus perspective on all sorts of different issues, and are willing to ask and think about tough questions.  And since I know […]

The Type of Sex Worth Waiting For: Looking Back After 9 Years of Marriage…

In middle school, I decided that True Love Waits. I got a purity ring that I wore on my left ring finger as a reminder that Jesus was my first love and I was saving sex for marriage. In high school, I decided to completely Kiss Dating Goodbye. Why waste my time dating before I was old […]